Bamboo I think.
Yes it was me, and likely mentally his health did have a knock on effect. Wouldn't most if someone close to them had had a stroke and there was a high likelihood of having another?! That is some level of mental stress to deal with whilst maintaining the concentration of an elite level sportsperson. How one's mental threshold handles it is all individual, Tom seemingly thought he was handling it fine but sometimes we need telling that we aren't doing as well as we think. Men especially.
I would say Wellens made the right call for both player and squad but I agree, I would love to see him at his best.