No one has tried to help me! And people are so two faced on here cos they have a dig at me but at least i go to all the games - virtually everyone on here don't go to the games cos "they can't be bothered to go". - And they call themselves supporters.
And Lumps i am blonde so no i probably didn't get the main thrust of your point there.
Have you not noticed the abuse that people dish out to each other on here every day love?
Fatbury gets called a cunt on pretty much an hourly basis but you don't see him getting a strop on do you.
Mind you that's because he's a cunt. And actually he does get a bit narky about it every now and again...........
I've sort of lost the tread of my argument here.......
But basically most of the people on here are grown ups and can dish it out and take it. If someone thinks your talking shite then they say so. Usually they'll explain their argument and you get a chance to respond and make your point. If you can't back up your initial statement then you mostly either back down or just stop posting.
Posters that get the real flack are the ones who:
1) post an opinion
2) react badly to anyone who disagrees
3) doesn't attempt to back up their initial statement
4) instead falls back on the rather tired "everyone's entitled to their opinion" argument (the point being that yes they are but everyone else is entitled to disagree and that starts a debate which is kind of the point of the whole fucking exercise)
5) Restates their initial opinion in another form of words repeatedly every page of the thread
6) Finish by accusing everyone of bullying them because they get called a few nasty names (verbal abuse is the default setting on here I'm afraid. Personally I blame Birdy - she's got a nasty mouth on her that girl).
Now, I've not gone through all your posts one by one, but I've the feeling you might have been gulity of making a few of those newbie errors.
All I can say is don't worry about it. Draw a line and forget what's gone before, and when you post in future try to remember the rules.
If you post an opinion (this players better than that one, this managers better than that one, Ralphy looks like a chimp) be prepared to back it up with something. Just chuck a load of stats at the fuckers (that fools most of the thick cunt's who can't count above ten without taking off their shoes and socks).
If you can't do that and others post convincing arguments against your point then be prepared to consider that you might be wrong. A simple "yeah you might be right but I still feel....." lets you withdraw gracefully.
People do it on here all the time, post something without thinking or without knowing the full facts or when angry or pissed, and then back down. I've done it myself when after sparking a 12 page thread on whether Mark Devlin should take some responsibility for the shit we're in the man himself logs on to let me know exactly how little control he had of the club when nominally the CEO. Sorry about that Mark!
The main thing is to try to grow up a bit. It's not a playground and there are no teachers to run to if someone calls you names. just call them a cunt and get on with your life, that's the TEF way.
Right, that's all the help you get (and it's more than anyone else has ever had). Sink or swim on your own from here on in.
