Naming Rapists (or not as the case may be)

[DV]

There is a major difference between being forced upon and being too drunk to remember what happened....

Its pathetic, if a drunken girl has sex and regrets it in the morning, its her own fault...firstly for getting so drunk she cant remember in the first place, and secondly for going back to the guys house/taking him back to her house.

So different, yet by the sounds of it, soon to be the same....

So if two drunk people have sex, does that mean they could both get the other one done for rape?

It's probably a different rule for us blokes.

that was the point I was getting at, seems we dont have to consent to having sex...but woman do...and if they dont remember, its our fault

[Spud]

I dont get this whole "if you dont get a yes then it's rape!", i just hope the gf doesnt tell the Police.

[Amir]

As I've said before a lad I know was accused of a rape that he didn't commit and it didn't even get to trial yet his name was in the papers, dirty story chasing bastards the lot of them.  Proving that something good comes out of everything, when on Kilroy and asked how he felt about what had happened he said, "I'm just glad I got away with it really"  


This unfortunately is one of those problems where you have to try and commit the lesser of two evils, and I blame the local rag more than I do the courts.