Walrus Reaches a New Low

[walrus]

Tuesday saw the difficult task of finishing it with my 18 month girlfriend, as I decided going to uni and all I wanted to be a free man and didn't want to start getting too serious....  It was a sad occassion, and despite promising myself I'd be a man, I did cry like a poof.  I was gutted, but knew in the long run it was for the best.

Thursday and my usual quiet drinks down my honoury local, followed by a spot of shindigging in the local club.  Being the innocent, friendly chappy I am I encouraged a girl who used to be in my English class to come along.  1/2 an hour later and I'm trapped against a wall and a table and her, and I couldn't find the words to politely decline.  I ended up getting off with her, only to find my ex was in the club.  I did know she was going, but convieniently forgot after a few drinks.  She confronted me, in front of everyone, and all I could think of were the infamous words of Homer Simpson: "I swear to you, I never thought you'd find out".   :|

So now I feel a bit, well a lot of, a shit.  Should I apologise, try to talk to her, or just avoid her for the next 9 days before we go to uni.  I had visions of staying friends with her, but after last night she might hate me.  Her friends are going to hate me too.  I'm fucked aren't I?  :|

[Ralphy]

I would leave it be mate.

Move on.

Sounds tough but it's for the best.

[land_of_bo]

Blame it on rohipnol!

[Kinky Tom]

Nevermind mate, as soon as you you find the Lesbian, Bi and Gay society at your freshers' fair you'll forget all your troubles, and your ex will understand why you couldn't be with her anymore.

You have to follow your heart Walrus, search out the LBGS as soon as you get there.  

[magicroundabout]

don't worry about it mate.

exactly 1 week after i finished with my ex of 6 years i was shaging someone else. harsh but fair

enjoy being single and don't worry about it

[Ralphy]

Easier said than done magic.

Takes months to overcome a long term relationship.

[oxford_fan]

you won't give a shit about any of this once you get to uni. avoid her and let time do all the hard work.

[magicroundabout]

move on i say.
especially if it was you who did the finishing.

if it was the otherway round i might agree

[Titch]

I think you should talk to her and apologise a bit.  Its always the best thingm trust me.  Then go back out and shag like it's your birthday  

[Asher]

Put it in a card, write your true feelings and then leave her be.  Its always hard breaking up especially if they were a massive part of your life

[Titch]

Yes i agree with that Asher 100%.  Women like this sort of thing and it means you can say things without fearing looking like a twat.

[magicroundabout]

the difference with me and my ex is she didn't find out about it etc where as yours has.

i imagine she is feeling like she has been kicked in the teath.
i would talk to her about it and just be honest. if you care about how she is feeling etc then don't bullshit her.

it sounds like you do still care so do it sooner rather than later

[Jesus Loves Porn]

Walrus becareful lad by jumping ship with the ex too early.

I did the same thing 5 years ago when I started uni and we went our seperate ways. After shagging around for the first month of uni realised Id made a mistake. Luckily she took me back and this October we are getting married.

Make sure leaving her is the right thing and you are not just doing it to get your willy wet with other ladieds like I did!!

[Sussex]

Talk to her (if she's still talking to you?) and just be honest about the situation. It wasn't planned and you were pissed.

Magic's right, it'll feel like a kick in the teeth just two days after you split up.

The most important thing is to leave for uni on good terms.

That way you're guaranteed to get your nuts wet when you come home in the holidays  

[Piemonte]

Thats hilarious