nearly fisty cuffs with a neighbour

[Arriba]

advice please as i'm raging at the moment and dont know how to play it.

my 10 year old daughter was outside my house playing with other kids when a car pulled up and a woman threatend to let her daughter hit mine as she had called her names previously,allegedly.
this was just before i was walking out the door to walk the dog,and i saw my daughter was distressed as i did.
i asked what was wrong and she was shocked as she doesn't knwo the girl or the family,aprart from they live round the corner and drive by.

i immediately walked to the house and knocked on the door to see what the hell was going on,only to be met with an aggressive twat and his gobby chavvy mrs.
i asked why my daughter was threatend and why,only to be met with aggression and insults.

i asked when the incident happend, to be told "on the way back from school"
i argued my daughter walks home with her mum every day so when?
the teen daughter is then presented to me and i asked what occured to be met with nothing.note at this point the dad is telling me to fuck off etc,etc,
i asked if other kids were there and she said yes.so i said how do you know it was my daughter.pause and then because i saw her.

now i aint one of those dads who thinks their kid is an angel when they aint but this aint fucking right.
my kid is fucking upset at this point and i'm being insulted by the mum and dad who are chavvy and aggrresive.
i say i'm not here for trouble and if my daughter has done wrong i'd deal with her etc.

matey starts threatening me, and being the person i am i dont back down.i tell him if he touches my child i will deal with him.he gives it the big un but brings nothing when i say i aint scared.my daughter is screaming telling me to leave it so i walk away.

now i know my kid and she has countless school reports saying how caring and kind she is.she had loads of small kids calling for her every day and i have never ever had a problem with her.

the people i met today were fucking nasty peices of work.the kid is a teenager for a start
and my daughter wouldn't dream of doing what she was accused of.
i just dont know how to play this as they have to pass our house every time they leave the street.
they aint lived there for long either and i dont know if they rent or own the place.


i've just typed and posted so sorry if it confuses.
just want honest decent advice on what to do please,as i dont think i should have to keep my daughter in,in case one of those cretins abuses or attacks her.

[Samdy Gray]

Shit through their letterbox.

[Mexicano Rojo]

i think its time the tef pressure group reered its ugly head, maybe ok it with barry but names and addresses and we can order/pizzas/currys/skips/strippers etc.

could be a fun old saturday night for fuck face and his slag of a wife.

[Arriba]

the clue was in honest decent advice.
any shit that comes to them will obviously have come from me.

[Benzel]

The kid has quite clearly lied, the pig ignorant parents are too thick to see this though - hence being met with agression. I mean that is usually the solution when a chav is confused. It's like some kind of reverse psychology bullying, trying to get your kid into trouble when she's done nothing wrong. Dunno what you can do though tbh... Other than give us their address, of course.

[BANGKOK RED]

I don't know what happened, neither do you. (Although I am sure your trust your daughters word).

But I think you hit the nail on the head when you said the word 'chav' in regards to their reaction.

Try to chill (obviously). Have a proper chat with your girl when you are cool. Perhaps there is more to it than she is telling you, she is only 10 after all and might be a tad scared.

You are dealing with adults who threaten 10 year old kids, they are hardly the smartest bunch.

[Arriba]

i told my daughter that this is serious and she has to tell me the truth.
she doesn't even know the girl and the incident never happend(not even with the kids she plays out with at any time she can remember)
their kid is either lying(which i suspect is the facts here)or has my daughter mixed up with someone else)

people with that attitude aint bullied.they dish it out.
i wouldn't be surprised if they made the whole thing up and were just being horrible cunts.

what i wont accept though is intimidation.i aint some weak bastard that takes shit like this.the fella offered fuck all when it was obvious i would not take it from him.

i aint scared or worried about them morons,but i can't always be there to protect my family as i'm a trucker(as you all know)

[chalkies_shorts]

arriba I think you've got to try and be cool - easier said than done. I think you need to talk to your kid - you'll know if she's telling porkies or not. If you're happy she isn't lying then you need to reassure her and tell her you believe her etc etc. The chavs know they can't fuck you around so may well back down and it all dies down from here. Its their call now, isn't it? They can back off and it all goes away or they can do something they will regret. I'm sure you can handle yourself but I'm sure there are many decent ( and indecent ) minded people on here who would have no qualms in making life difficult ( non violent obviously ) for those who would take it out on 10 year olds.   

[Arriba]

i believe my daughter 100%.her reaction and distress told me everything.

like i said they dont scare me.my mrs is a tough cookie too.but my girl aint.
i am worried about her,and she is my only concern here.
if i'm in london,manchester,etc i aint there to protect her.

those cowardly cunts aint got enough to take me but would scratch my car,hurt my kid if i aint there etc.

[BANGKOK RED]

Drop it for tonight.

Have a chat with your girl tomorrow and take it from there. You aren't going to achieve anything when you are this wound up and you could even end up making it worse.

[Batch]

Probably a case of mistaken identity then

You are dealing with adults who threaten 10 year old kids, they are hardly the smartest bunch.

Exactly. There is no reasoning with them, waste of breath trying. Though clearly a word was in order given what they did.

I guess its a case of wait and see? Hopefully your little word will mean the end of it.

If not I guess the legal options are getting the police to have a word and informing the school of the situation. The other option is have it out with them. Neither seem too appealing.

I dread this happening to mine. I am a complete pussy at things like this.

[chalkies_shorts]

I dread this happening to mine. I am a complete pussy at things like this.

Batch, if it was in defence of your kids, believe me you wouldn't be a complete pussy. You might be 99.9999% of the time but you'll have hidden reserves when you need them. Hopefully, you'll never need to.

[joteddyred]

You mention that they haven't lived there long and you're not sure if they're renting.  If anything further happens from this, might be worth trying to find out (not sure how though?) and if so, whether it's private or housing association and then complaining to the relevant person/company.

My friend experienced a similar situation where her son was getting continually intimidated by a 'chavvy' family in her street to the point that he was frightened to leave the house.  They were renting and in the end the owner of the house terminated their rent due to the problems they were causing and they were literally moved on over night.

[Crispy]

Come round my house again and ill fucking have ya'.

On a serious note, bring it up again tomorrow and tell her again to explain herself. Carry on letting her out to play but make sure shes in eye sight of your house. If they even stop the car near her grab her get her in and ring the police.

[Arriba]

the kid doesn't go to the school my girl does.we have no idea what school she goes to .she's older and my kid rides on her bike with the mrs home from her last year in primary school.

i wish i asked for the time and location of the incident as it would have stopped it there and then.being met with abuse and threats meant i went on the attack though.

i'm chilled now,and not bothered.my kid gets hurt and they will fucking get it. they know that.
i want to prove(if their scummy kid did get abuse)that my girl wasn't involved.that would end it for good.
until then they will hate me, and i will be waiting as i will get my vengence no fucking doubt about that.i moved here for peace amd a better life.those cunts have riled me big fucking time