nearly fisty cuffs with a neighbour

[BANGKOK RED]

Do you get on with your neighbours?

Do your neighbours know them?

Do your neighbours have kids?

[Arriba]

they live as far round the corner as it goes.
my kid gets on great with everyone round here.
the kids are always knocking for her.we love it here.
this is right out of the blue.
the problem i have is that they have to pass my house to exit the street,so we will cross paths.

[Benzel]

Are you in or around Swindon, arriba?

[Mudfish]

advice please as i'm raging at the moment and dont know how to play it.

my 10 year old daughter was outside my house playing with other kids when a car pulled up and a woman threatend to let her daughter hit mine as she had called her names previously,allegedly.
this was just before i was walking out the door to walk the dog,and i saw my daughter was distressed as i did.
i asked what was wrong and she was shocked as she doesn't knwo the girl or the family,aprart from they live round the corner and drive by.

i immediately walked to the house and knocked on the door to see what the hell was going on,only to be met with an aggressive twat and his gobby chavvy mrs.
i asked why my daughter was threatend and why,only to be met with aggression and insults.

i asked when the incident happend, to be told "on the way back from school"
i argued my daughter walks home with her mum every day so when?
the teen daughter is then presented to me and i asked what occured to be met with nothing.note at this point the dad is telling me to fuck off etc,etc,
i asked if other kids were there and she said yes.so i said how do you know it was my daughter.pause and then because i saw her.

now i aint one of those dads who thinks their kid is an angel when they aint but this aint fucking right.
my kid is fucking upset at this point and i'm being insulted by the mum and dad who are chavvy and aggrresive.
i say i'm not here for trouble and if my daughter has done wrong i'd deal with her etc.

matey starts threatening me, and being the person i am i dont back down.i tell him if he touches my child i will deal with him.he gives it the big un but brings nothing when i say i aint scared.my daughter is screaming telling me to leave it so i walk away.

now i know my kid and she has countless school reports saying how caring and kind she is.she had loads of small kids calling for her every day and i have never ever had a problem with her.

the people i met today were fucking nasty peices of work.the kid is a teenager for a start
and my daughter wouldn't dream of doing what she was accused of.
i just dont know how to play this as they have to pass our house every time they leave the street.
they aint lived there for long either and i dont know if they rent or own the place.


i've just typed and posted so sorry if it confuses.
just want honest decent advice on what to do please,as i dont think i should have to keep my daughter in,in case one of those cretins abuses or attacks her.

Grow a pair and need not ask a forum of other men how to deal with the obvious. Just monitor the situation an if anymore happen then lamp the cunt.

[BANGKOK RED]

Prick

[Nemo]

His last three posts are something special, racism, telling someone to kill themselves and being a giant twunt.

[BANGKOK RED]

His last three posts are something special, racism, telling someone to kill themselves and being a giant twunt.

Yeah. That Arriba's always been a bit of a cock.

[Nomoreheroes]

Hate to say it arriba, but think that you have to deal with it in a slightly different way. You might think about ways to diffuse the situation. The only way that I can see is by offering them a way out.

[Arriba]

Hate to say it arriba, but think that you have to deal with it in a slightly different way. You might think about ways to diffuse the situation. The only way that I can see is by offering them a way out.

elaborate please.
i dont get what you say dude.

i'm going to call the police on monday.at least my complaint is then on record.
i dont want to do this but i have to put my family first.i can't always be around.

[BANGKOK RED]

elaborate please.
i dont get what you say dude.

i think that he is trying to say somehow that you should apologise. It gives them them the opportunity to accept the apology and back down without feeling bad/defeated.

In this part of the world it is known as 'giving face'

it is something that I personally disagree with. I could start a thread about 'face'

[leefer]

Dont back down arriba....but keep all the aggro away from your daughter.
Sometimes you are showing more bollox by saying fuck it i am not letting these idiots ruin things for my daughter.
Let them know that as far as your concerned that if this abuse happens again towards your girl then you wont let it lie.
Sorry to hear your having this hassle.

[Arriba]

i apologise when i need to,not when i've done fuck all wrong.the cunt's lucky i didn't deck him on his door step

[tans]

Burn them

[Arriba]

Burn them

you'd only save them you cunt you.

[tans]

Nah, i aint in swindon