Yep!! But I didn't feel like they were being false nice in the states - I think working in the hospitality industry is seen as more of a career over there - some people in the UK seem to see it as beneath them??
We went to IHOP in Florida and was served by a really nice lady. We got chatting and she was working there because she couldn't get a job anywhere else. Apparently she had a degree in social work but just could not get a job in her chosen profession so had to work as a waitress to make ends meet. Florida is certainly struggling with the economic downturn, you can buy some lovely houses in North Florida for a bargain these days.