Miss Angry
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« on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:35:19 » |
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The couple next door are screaming at each other then theres smashing noises and she's crying alot... he is also growling at her. I can hear it clear as day but they are not speaking english so dont know what they are saying. I get on with the woman we quite often chat in the garden in the summer. Ive banged on the wall but that didnt stop them...i dont know if i should maybe knock on the door or something... im not a nosey person but im not sure if i should actaully ignore it either... what would you do?
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« Reply #1 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:36:42 » |
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i'd stay out of it.
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« Reply #2 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:37:07 » |
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Don't do nothing.
Do you think it's domestic abuse?
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Miss Angry
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« Reply #3 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:40:02 » |
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its stopped now... thankgod. It happens once a week to be fair and i have always ignored it but today was a bit worse i was a little bit scared myself. May be when he goes to work i'll check if she ok? I dunno... im well aware sometimes things are best left its just rubbish having to listen to it and not being able to help
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« Reply #4 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:40:15 » |
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In all seriousness I would probably end up doing nothing but that's not the right thing to do.
I hate this idea that someone being violent to someone else within a relationship is private and you shouldn't interfere if you don't like it.
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Jamiesfuturewife
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« Reply #5 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:42:03 » |
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I would be scared if I didn't do something then something bad might happen but if he's a scary bloke it might be hard to get involved?? I'd say call the police but they would probably turn up a week next Wednesday or something
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Bogus Dave
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« Reply #6 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:43:16 » |
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I'm sure their's two sides to this
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« Reply #7 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:45:07 » |
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I'm sure their's two sides to this
How can you be "sure"? Maybe he's just a complete cunt.
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Jamiesfuturewife
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« Reply #8 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:45:46 » |
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You say they weren't speaking English do you know where they are from?? I know some countries treat women with alot of disrespect don't they??
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Bogus Dave
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« Reply #9 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:46:49 » |
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« Reply #10 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:48:39 » |
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Miss Angry
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« Reply #11 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:48:51 » |
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I have before now heard her go for him! she is bigger than him too... so yes im sure there is two sides... hence why as a rule i stay out of it. Like i said today way a bit different and i was scared! They're Hindu... the same has crossed my mind jwf
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« Reply #12 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:50:22 » |
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"It happens once a week" you say, shouting, screaming and violence...
....sounds like our household - normally when dancing on ice is on tele.
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« Reply #13 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:55:58 » |
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Not the same I know but My friend works at Swindon Hospital she was telling the other day me alot of the cleaners are from Ghana - apprently the have there own "community" within Swindon - one of the cleaners was wrongly accused of stealing some pens from the hospital - it got back the the community "leader" and she was beaten and disowned by her family for being a thief!! Scary!
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« Reply #14 on: Tuesday, February 9, 2010, 14:58:01 » |
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Probably just a domestic. Leave 'em be.
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