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« on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:09:27 » |
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background: guy i've known for years but he's come to dislike me due to my mrs being his mates ex has been going out with girl for years. this girl has put up with shit like him going mental at her for- her phone not receiving texts, dancing, getting drunk, going out without him etc.
new girl joins our team, is appointed my deputy...turns out she used to have an unspoken thing with said guy and she confides in me that she stayed in guys bed with him and along with two others. guy's girl knew of new girls liking of guy and despises her because of it.
my mrs is good friends with guys girl and of course i confided in her...was i wrong to do this? should i feel bad that my mrs has told her friend?
i'd hate to read this drunk...
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ibelieveinmrreeves
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« Reply #1 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:12:02 » |
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Its difficult enough to read sober...
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« Reply #2 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:12:40 » |
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I'm reading it drunk and is the answer that you should ask the girl for a threesome with your mrs?
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« Reply #3 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:13:24 » |
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Could you simplify that,I dont get it..
whats the actual dilema anyway?
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« Reply #4 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:14:35 » |
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I'm drunk too and agree with mr shorts(unless there were 4 women there?)
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« Reply #5 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:16:03 » |
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guy is cock to mrs, then shares a bed with another girl he knows his mrs hates i got carried away 
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« Reply #6 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:18:29 » |
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I get the dillema bit now.
yes you should feel bad.
although..
did the girl at work know of your connection to the other person?
cos if she did she probably knew it was going to get back anyway,if thats the case then you shouldnt feel bad.
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« Reply #7 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:19:17 » |
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I’m sober and I work with you and I’m still baffled. (Assuming your talking about work) I would appreciate you liaising with me to bring this matter to a resolution at your earliest convenience Mr. Bennett.
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« Reply #8 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:19:26 » |
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As long as he didn't then no real damage done - put it down to experience. If he gave her a portion then the game changes.
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« Reply #9 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:19:36 » |
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is sharing a bed having sex or just sharing a bed by the way?
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« Reply #10 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:20:34 » |
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sharing a bed, and the girl knew the guy was with his mrs still
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« Reply #11 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:22:58 » |
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No real damage done - move on - let it go - keep out.
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« Reply #12 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:23:52 » |
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Fuck me,its just like Hollyoaks. Sleeping in the same bed as someone your Mrs doesnt like surely isnt the worst crime ever. were they top and tail?  its very important.. were socks left on?
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« Reply #13 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:24:43 » |
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see i'd agree with you, but he's such a cock to her. this week he's not spoken to his mrs (who's in bournemouth at uni) for two days as her phone wouldn't send text messages whilst she was at the pub...
the keeping out bit seems a bit harder from here
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« Reply #14 on: Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:26:13 » |
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She should just dump him,he sounds like a nob.
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