girlfriend or job

[Simon Pieman]

Debatable, Hertha

[Reg Smeeton]

for gods sake don't move in with a woman, go for the job

i wouldnt be moving in, but living in the same city. she has another year left at uni.

they're all cocks anyway, just move to london and visit soho

 like the Murphy's I'm not bitter.

[herthab]

Debatable, Hertha

Surely you'd pay more?

You get an extra bit.............................

[oxford_fan]

nah i dont think she'll get that idea, we're only 20 and 22 and neither of us would consider marriage til 30's i'd say. i think we like each other an equal amount.

 Well if you just like each other, then move to London and meet up from time to time.....its quite possible to like loads of women....what happens when she finishes?

if i move to london i'll be working such long hours that we'll have to end it.

haven't thought about when she finishes, should probably ask. its a bit of a long way away to plan for though.

[Reg Smeeton]

nah i dont think she'll get that idea, we're only 20 and 22 and neither of us would consider marriage til 30's i'd say. i think we like each other an equal amount.

 Well if you just like each other, then move to London and meet up from time to time.....its quite possible to like loads of women....what happens when she finishes?

if i move to london i'll be working such long hours that we'll have to end it.

haven't thought about when she finishes, should probably ask. its a bit of a long way away to plan for though.

 Given the exceedingly little amount of time that tax dodgers spend studying, she' ll be finsihed in maybe 9 months,  not that long really.

[Bennett]

for gods sake don't move in with a woman, go for the job

i wouldnt be moving in, but living in the same city. she has another year left at uni.

they've all got cocks anyway, just move to london and visit soho

Yeah, but you have to pay more for that..................

but you can smack about hookers and not get into the same amount of shit you would if it was your mrs....

[Rich Pullen]

I'd stay in Norwich - then again I live with my missus - have done for 2 years now. It's been a laugh. To me, it sounds like you'd rather stay in Norwich anyway - the rat race can wait.

To quote Norwich's greatest patron.

Go to London! I guarantee you'll either be mugged or not appreciated. Catch the train to London, stopping at Rejection, Disappointment, Backstabbing Central and Shattered Dreams Parkway.

[spacey]

Tell your bird you're not sure what you want to do so you've asked a bunch of Swindon fans on an internet forum, and when the results are in you'll get back to her. I'm sure she'll be so delighted with this turn of events that she'll be like putty in your hands.

[pauld]

[pauld]

Go to London but get a less soul-destroying job - jr estate six days a week, FFS. Why don't you just go to the local Satanist temple and offer them your bottom as a goat-substitute instead?

[land_of_bo]

I thought you were looking for a journo type job OF, or had been offered one?

Estate agents burn out so quick, I'd hang around in Naaaarwhich and wait for something better.

[Lumps]

I was about to post that everyone had failed to comment on the key fucking element of this "dilemma", but the ever reliable Pauld has beat me to it.

A FUCKING ESTATE AGENT! For fucksake NO!

You're way better off staying with the webbed feet people and your bird. London is a shit hole to live in unless you're absolutely fucking loaded, and you won't be. Look for other work mate and stay where you are.

[jimbob]

i'd say from experience that it aint going the distance with ya mrs anyway as you're both too young, so sack it off, get yaself to the big smoke and go n get conkers deep with some filfy milfy....then tap her back up when it goes tits up....

[Red81]

should i take a decent job in london or take a year off so i can stay with the bird in norwich? i wouldn't be able to get as good a job there, but could do more reffing and some voluntary work and work experience to boost the cv a bit and in the meantime hopefully figure out what i want to do long term.

i'm a little bit tetchy about the london job as its for a big estate agents who have a high staff turnover with many dropping out after only four months, dont want to sacrifice my relationship and for it to turn out to be a shit job which i quit after a quarter of a year. the hours are insane too, its 6 days a week as you have to do sundays for a bit.

Woah woah woah for a minute here. You used the term decent job, so therefore I assume it's a good option for you personally? I gave up alot for a girl once, even moved to a different country. I had a good time, but it didn't make me any better off in the long run. It really depends on how good the oppourtunity is. Me personally I'd take that into consideration over anything.

[axs]

there's a horrible smell of 3rd person deja vu about all of this.