girlfriend or job

[oxford_fan]

should i take a decent job in london or take a year off so i can stay with the bird in norwich? i wouldn't be able to get as good a job there, but could do more reffing and some voluntary work and work experience to boost the cv a bit and in the meantime hopefully figure out what i want to do long term.

i'm a little bit tetchy about the london job as its for a big estate agents who have a high staff turnover with many dropping out after only four months, dont want to sacrifice my relationship and for it to turn out to be a shit job which i quit after a quarter of a year. the hours are insane too, its 6 days a week as you have to do sundays for a bit.

[STFCDude2]

go to norwich, its further from swindon

[flammableBen]

Stay in Norwich. Don't bother with the London job. Sounds like hardwork.

[Reg Smeeton]

Go for the job.....if you stay for the bird she'll get the wrong idea.

[oxford_fan]

Stay in Norwich. Don't bother with the London job. Sounds like hardwork.

i like the sound of that.

Go for the job.....if you stay for the bird she'll get the wrong idea.

how so, reg?

[Reg Smeeton]

Stay in Norwich. Don't bother with the London job. Sounds like hardwork.

i like the sound of that.

Go for the job.....if you stay for the bird she'll get the wrong idea.

how so, reg?

  Well lets put it like this.....if you love the lady in question you'll do anything for her....same scenario happened to me many years ago....total no brainer, I hung about until she'd finished her course and we both moved to London, what's a year or so?

  If you don't love her but hang about she may think you do, therefore getting the wrong idea....

[RappersDelight]

think reg is saying she's think you want to marry her or something...
i'd go to norwich though, that job sounds like too much hassle............. remember to work to live and not live to work!

[Bennett]

for gods sake don't move in with a woman, go for the job

[oxford_fan]

nah i dont think she'll get that idea, we're only 20 and 22 and neither of us would consider marriage til 30's i'd say. i think we like each other an equal amount.

[oxford_fan]

for gods sake don't move in with a woman, go for the job

i wouldnt be moving in, but living in the same city. she has another year left at uni.

[herthab]

Don't know why you're asking.

It's clear from the way you phrased the question that you'd rather stay in Norwich.

Flip a coin. I bet if you say heads for London, tails for Norwich and it comes up heads, you'll decide to do best out of three..........

Then five, then seven, until you get the result you want.

[Reg Smeeton]

nah i dont think she'll get that idea, we're only 20 and 22 and neither of us would consider marriage til 30's i'd say. i think we like each other an equal amount.

 Well if you just like each other, then move to London and meet up from time to time.....its quite possible to like loads of women....what happens when she finishes?

[Simon Pieman]

Get the girfriend to get a job so she can fund your drinking/drug taking

[Bennett]

for gods sake don't move in with a woman, go for the job

i wouldnt be moving in, but living in the same city. she has another year left at uni.

they're all cocks anyway, just move to london and visit soho

[herthab]

for gods sake don't move in with a woman, go for the job

i wouldnt be moving in, but living in the same city. she has another year left at uni.

they've all got cocks anyway, just move to london and visit soho

Yeah, but you have to pay more for that..................