herthab
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« on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 19:53:34 » |
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My dad died this morning. He was 65 and one of the fittest blokes I know, didn't smoke, excercised, watched what he ate, etc,etc.
He had a massive heart attack and was gone.
I know I'll miss him and I'm sorry he's gone, he was a good mate as well as my dad.
However, I'm still going tomorrow and I'm feeling a bit guilty.
What do you guys think?
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« Reply #1 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 19:54:12 » |
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sorry to hear that, thoughts are with you
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« Reply #2 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 19:56:24 » |
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Sorry to hear that mate.By the sound of it your dad would want you to get out and enjoy the football.You would be sat at home just thinking over things herthab and that would make it worse imo
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« Reply #3 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 19:58:20 » |
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i'm sorry to hear that. My thoughts are, go to football, i'm sure he would've wanted you to go
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« Reply #4 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:01:42 » |
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Sorry to hear it.
Go, it's what he would have wanted.
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« Reply #5 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:06:41 » |
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Really sorry to hear that. I lost my Dad five years ago. Deepest sympathies.
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« Reply #6 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:07:45 » |
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My dad died this morning. He was 65 and one of the fittest blokes I know, didn't smoke, excercised, watched what he ate, etc,etc.
He had a massive heart attack and was gone.
I know I'll miss him and I'm sorry he's gone, he was a good mate as well as my dad.
However, I'm still going tomorrow and I'm feeling a bit guilty.
What do you guys think? Fucking hell man, sorry to hear that, I really am. I lost my old man 20 years ago but it still feels like last week. It's a strange feeling. You don't know what you are supposed to do exactly. All you can do is do your own thing. There is no right way and no wrong way. I personally think you should go to the game and I don't think there is any reason for you to feel to feel bad about it. I feel your pain man. I really do. |
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« Reply #7 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:12:01 » |
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when my dad died two years ago i went out and got pissed with my brothers, he wouldn't have wanted us moping around because of him, and although every situation is different, i'm sure your dad would want you to do whatever makes you feel good.
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« Reply #8 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:13:01 » |
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Thoughts are with you herthab!
Go to the game. I don't see that it would have upset him and maybe it will be good for you to do something normal like go to footy
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« Reply #9 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:13:58 » |
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That's sad to hear Steve  Personally I wouldn't go to football after something like that, especially with a game as important as tomorrow. There would be too many emotions running wild. But you should do whatever you think is best. If you want to go to football then go. I'm sure your Dad would've wanted you to do whatever felt best. |
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« Reply #10 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:17:24 » |
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My condolences mate. I don't think that I would personally be able to face it if I was in your circumstances but if your Dad would have wanted you to go, then go.
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« Reply #11 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:20:51 » |
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Thats awful news mate, sorry to hear it. Just do what ever your dad would of wanted you to do
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« Reply #12 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 20:33:37 » |
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Sorry mate.
There is no right or wrong. Do what you feel in your heart.
Deepest sympathies.
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« Reply #13 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 21:09:38 » |
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So very sorry to hear about that Steve, may he rest in peace but please dont feel guilty, my mum passed away a few months back and I do know exactly how you feel.
However there is absolutely nothing you can do and your life must contiue, save your grief for your private times and for the funeral but stay strong, its so bloody hard to at this time I know and please dont feel in any way guilty about tomorrow.
If you need anything you have my email addy Steve.
take care.
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« Reply #14 on: Friday, April 27, 2007, 21:29:31 » |
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My condolences to you and the family.
You know what you want to do, and what your dad would've wanted - don't feel guilty or let others make you feel bad.
Just don't go on your own, as Sam said, too many emotions tomorrow.
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