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Question: Who should pay for the hire of the suits for the best man and ushers (and bridesmaids dresses)?  (Voting closed: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:04:32)
The Bride/Groom (or their parents) - 38 (70.4%)
The best man, ushers, bridesmaid - 6 (11.1%)
Should come to a 50/50 compromise - 10 (18.5%)
Total Voters: 34

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janaage
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« on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:04:32 »

And no this isn't for me as I have no plans of getting married just yet.  I have a friend at work who's in a bit of a quandary.  Honest answers please.

Cheers.

and ps no he's not Scottish I just don't think he budgeted for the hire of all the gear.
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land_of_bo

« Reply #1 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:06:02 »

I'm (The Groom) paying for the suit hire at my wedding in September. But we are paying for everything. Not sure what proper "Protocol" is...
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« Reply #2 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:07:19 »

Being a traditionalist, it should be down to the brides parents.

Which is handy, as I haven't got a daughter Cheesy
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« Reply #3 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:08:52 »

I didn't have to pay for my suit at the wedding I was best man at, and I even managed to charge the groom £150 appearance fee as my speech was that good.  Wink

Protocol, that's the word I was looking for earlier!!

It's a toughy, but if you pay for one you pay for all, I think, all or nothing.
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land_of_bo

« Reply #4 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:19:53 »

http://www.topweddinglinks.com/etiquette.html

The grooms family usually pays for clothing for the wedding.
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« Reply #5 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:21:36 »

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http://www.topweddinglinks.com/etiquette.html

The grooms family usually pays for clothing for the wedding.



Fuck that! He can pay for it himself............................
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Fred Elliot
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« Reply #6 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:29:35 »

Fuck that

Go in jeans
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Sussex

« Reply #7 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 17:29:45 »

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Fuck that! He can pay for it himself............................


I think you've got a fair few years yet to start saving for it!

I voted the top one.
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TalkTalk

« Reply #8 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 18:16:09 »

Don't get married. Full stop, end of poll.

The best advice anybody could ever give someone.
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« Reply #9 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 18:17:51 »

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Don't get married. Full stop, end of poll.

The best advice anybody could ever give someone.


Nah

I like being married thanks !

 Cheesy
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TalkTalk

« Reply #10 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 18:21:09 »

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Quote from: "TalkTalk"
Don't get married. Full stop, end of poll.

The best advice anybody could ever give someone.


Nah

I like being married thanks !

 Cheesy

You were told to say that.

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« Reply #11 on: Tuesday, March 13, 2007, 18:21:38 »

Im with talk talk half of everything!

The couple should pay for everything
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mattboyslim

« Reply #12 on: Wednesday, March 14, 2007, 08:29:26 »

IMHO really depends on who's paying for the rest - but realistically the parents or the couple I would say, when I was an usher - admittedly as a poor 19yr old student the suit was paid for by my parents as it was my sisters weddding - they were bought suits though? no idea who paid for the grooms side of the family though?
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« Reply #13 on: Wednesday, March 14, 2007, 08:34:16 »

Tradition/Custom says that the Groom pays for the Grooms suit and the Best Mans suit.

The brides father pays for the Ushers and the Bridesmaid dresses.
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red macca

« Reply #14 on: Wednesday, March 14, 2007, 13:09:50 »

Marriage is a mugs game Sad
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