IMO putting a bit of distance in between yourselves just makes the trust worse and constantly worrying about what the others doing.
It's me who worries about what she is doing. I can be trusted, she doesn't have to worry and knows that. Putting distance between us would remove my anxiety.
I agree that a break in itself won't restore the trust, but it may give us the opportunity to move on from the things in the past and prevent her from doing it again. I'm just clutching at straws for a solution though, and this probably isn't it. I can't think of any other options to restore the trust though.
Lumps its too late for me to backtrack. I could possibly say that I've been desperately seeking a solution to our problem and this is all I could think of - and that I wasn't saying it should happen just that it seems the only option to me at the moment.
Why dont you trust her? has she actually done anything or are you a parnoid nutter?
I dumped her about 6 months ago for being a scumbag. She gets drunk and acts like a prick. She said she'd see a professional in September about it.
Basically we got back together on the condition that there would be more honesty from her and more trust from me. We booked a holiday. Then last week she lied to me about where she stayed - first said at a friends, then when i pushed she claimed she passed out on a sofa. Completely ruined any progress we had made.
I think perhaps I don't really want a break, I want it to be over. But I still want to go on the holiday because I like her like mad whatever she does, and we've paid £500 each for the flights! I'd rather go with her than on my own.
