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Fred Elliot
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« on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:44:56 »

Dilemma time............................have mulled this over for the last couple of weeks and I have changed my mind every day since.

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It is my weekend to have Jenna and, however much I would like, she is more into horsey's and netball at the moment. Now, of course she would love to spend the afternoon with my Mum, and in normal circumstances this would be cool.

However, one of my mates and his handbrake are getting engaged this Saturday and are having a bit of a bash in the evening and of course I am invited and would dearly love to go.

It would be completely irresponsible (not that I ever am) of me to attend both, and I would not want to anyway and loose that amount of my time with Jen.

Mum and Dad have offered to sleep Jen on Saturday night which is cool, but I don't really know what to do


Miss the game, or miss the party ?

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STFC_Gazzza

« Reply #1 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:47:02 »

I'd stay with your daughter mate. There will be a time when kids dont want to do things with their parents so I'd spend as much time as you can with her now and cherish the time you have... Thats just me.
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« Reply #2 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:47:57 »

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I'd stay with your daughter mate. There will be a time when kids dont want to do things with their parents so I'd spend as much time as you can with her now and cherish the time you have... Thats just me.


are you saying to miss both Gaz ?
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« Reply #3 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:48:02 »

Go to your mates engagement instead of the football if you can't do both.
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« Reply #4 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:49:50 »

Force her to go to the football, thus ensuring she gets a strop on, then punish her by going to the party without her.  This should ensure a smooth behavioural adjustment for future important fixtures.







Or do what Gazza said, and maybe have a little cry or something as well.
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STFC_Gazzza

« Reply #5 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:50:03 »

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I'd stay with your daughter mate. There will be a time when kids dont want to do things with their parents so I'd spend as much time as you can with her now and cherish the time you have... Thats just me.


are you saying to miss both Gaz ?


I mean I don't have kids so its hard for me to say really but I know of people who say "I wish I could have done this with my kids" I'd say forget the party mate, I'm sure they would understand... or even just pop out for an hour or so even though you would be tempted to stay out all night. I know from my experiences with my family to enjoy as much time as you can with them...
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« Reply #6 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:50:59 »

If it were me, and it quite clearly isnt.....miss the party

come on you reds!
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« Reply #7 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:51:00 »

Become a dice man. It's the only way to decide what to do in major life decisions such as these.

On a serious note:

If it were me I'd leave a decision until nearer the time and see which option appealed to me more.
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« Reply #8 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:51:33 »

Miss the game.

No dilema there.

I took my niece to kids allowed Saturday,much more fun than watching Swindon get stuffed. <---------Smugness
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« Reply #9 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:51:59 »

oooh, strike the end of my reply, I thought Gazza meant going to the party.  Even in sensible mode I'd say the party is the one to go to.
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« Reply #10 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:55:41 »

Telling Jenna you're going to buy her a horse will probably get you a pass out to both. Expensive day though.  Smiley

(I'd bin the football)
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« Reply #11 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:58:02 »

Oooooh get 2 horses ,one for Jen one for you.

Get a green jacket thing and ride them to football and pretend to be mounted Police.if you're lucky you'll get to smack a few Leeds as well Cool
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« Reply #12 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 19:59:58 »

Spend the day with Jen, then if you want to, go to the party.
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« Reply #13 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 20:09:24 »

Miss the footy.

Your mate will "Hopefully" only get engaged/married once but you can go to watch STFC again.

BUT let him know that in case of a non-marriage/divorce situation then the football will take precedence, and therefore he should be damned sure that he gets it right the first time around.
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« Reply #14 on: Monday, February 25, 2008, 20:10:22 »

cant you just have her next weekend and go to both?
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