Dilemma

[Bob's Orange]

Without making this sound like a Dear Deirdre post, I require some advice.

I am now on the road to recovery and expect to be able to walk (reasonably normally) by next weekend. So, I should be back to normal in my social life etc ect.

Now, I mentioned in another post that I had my eye on this Irish girl who is over for the summer. My plan was to ask her out either this week or next but the dilemma that I have is that one of my mates I think likes her also and I believe may have pulled her a couple of times in the last few weeks. He doesn't know I know this but he is a good guy and I don't want to 'mow his lawn' so to speak'

We had a mini house party last night and this was the first proper time I had seen and spoken to Miss Ireland and I would like to get to know her better but don't want to tread on any toes. She said for me to email her next week (I had been emailing her for a bit to try and get to know her better, nothing very intimate) so I figured it was the perfect way to test the water.

What should I do? :roll:

[Bennett]

have fun and be fucked with the consequences

[Spud]

Smash her back door in.

[herthab]

I think you need to do her hard, just to get her out of your system.

How good a mate is this other bloke?

Possibly a threesome?

Share and share alike..............

[Simon Pieman]

Don't get involved, it'll only end up pissing you off further down the line.

[herthab]

Don't get involved, it'll only end up pissing you off further down the line.

Thank you Deidre

[Simon Pieman]

His mate has probably given her the grid anyway

 

[Sussex]

Depends if you're comfortable with sloppy seconds I suppose  :|

Has she got any mates that aren't slappers?...

[Bob's Orange]

Depends if you're comfortable with sloppy seconds I suppose  :|

Has she got any mates that aren't slappers?...

The thing is I don't know her that well so I can't really say if she is a slapper or not. I am pretty sure that she isn't but as I haven't been out for ages I don't really know what has been going on!  :evil:

[walrus]

One-itis is a bad thing...  I say keep the option and your eyes open...

[Simon Pieman]

That's the first post by Walrus that I have agreed with in a long time.

If you hardly know the girl then it's not really too bad. But if you do decide to pursue it further, make sure she isn't an immatature and probably mental person. If she isn't (good good) then bang her brains out and jizz in her eyes.

[herthab]

That's the first post by Walrus that I have agreed with in a long time.

If you hardly know the girl then it's not really too bad. But if you do decide to pursue it further, make sure she isn't an immatature and probably mental person. If she isn't (good good) then bang her brains out and jizz in her eyes.

And hair.

And armpits.

[Sussex]

I'd bite the bullet and ask her out asap before the other bloke gets the chance to get too 'involved'.

At least you'll know one way or the other.

[Bob's Orange]

I'd bite the bullet and ask her out asap before the other bloke gets the chance to get too 'involved'.

At least you'll know one way or the other.

Si Pie, I am pretty sure from our conversations in both person and via email that she is neither immature or mental!

Think that is what I am going to do Sussex, watch this space!

[magicroundabout]

dry and hard

it's the only way