Im angry!

[Miss Angry]

I just found out from my dad that he has just got out of hospital after having a stroke!

Im furious nobody bothered to tell me, we have only in the last year really formed a relationship but that only makes it worse! If no one had time to call me they could have got me on facebook there is enough of them on there.

Thing is i am going to see him tomo ( pre planned ) and now i can see myself telling his wife and step kids where they can stick thier heads, but i guess that isnt good for him if he has only been out a day.

To top it off i cant moan at my boyfriend cos he is in vegas, obviously cant moan to my mum cos she hates him so that leaves me to rant on a forum!

Some people are just so bloody rude.

[Batch]

A self titled thread. Angry by Miss Angry. Angry by name... Wonder how you'll cope with starting the difficult second thread.
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That's a bit off, not telling you.  But maybe they just weren't thinking staight. Hope he recovers well.

[Miss Angry]

i can forgive his wife even though we are not fans of each other, she has alot on her plate at the moment. It's the aunties, cousins n brother in laws that could have told me ive seen them on facebook all week!

He says it was a small stroke and he is home now, will see him tomo so i guess he is ok. I think its more so i have no one to vent at right now.... of course all this will turn out to be my boyfriends fault cos he is not hear when i want him to be

[chalkies_shorts]

Its a time for calm not emotion. Yes, you're pissed off but sometimes people don't think straight in times like this. Everyone concentrates on the ill and sometimes people forget to tell others. I've been thruogh a hell of al ot of shit in the last 3 years where my family have been decimated.
It's what you do now thats important.Keep your cool and concentrate on whats important.  

[flammableBen]

Obviously I don't how your relationships are with your dad's other family, so feel free to ignore. But it's probably best to go in giving them the benefit of the doubt, it wouldn't have been an easy time for them and people don't always think through what they're expected to do in situations like that. As you say, going in all (miss)angry probably won't help anyway.

[Miss Angry]

cheers guys, i guess i should try n focus on the fact that as soon as he has been able to he has told me, rather than what anyone else has not told me

[axs]

hope he is OK. Stress affects people in different ways (your relations i mean). It's often hard to focus on things like calling people with bad news.

[Simon Pieman]

I think you should concentrate on your Dad's well-being rather than what other people should have told you. After all, you're probably angry because his health is that important to you. Don't lose sight of the bigger picture.

[swindon_chick]

Look on the brightside, He is still here and out of hospital.
When my Gramps died of a stroke it took his employers over 4hours to inform my Nan that he had been rushed into hospital, by that time he had died and she didn't get to see him before he died.

[Bushey Boy]

Michelle, know we dont talk as much anymore but if you need a moan you know my msn and or number! Hope you are ok, know it took alot to get back talking

[Miss Angry]

Im ok now that i have seen him. He is ok too, just cant see very well at the moment. They have done brain scans and such to rule out anything more sinister, so thats good.

My realationship with his other family isnt really a good one, we are all polite to each other but i know they would rather me not be involved. I have two baby half brothers though so i make myself involved

Chick, thats really sad. Part of the reason i was so upset is that i have often wondered if anything really bad happened would they let me know and this just confirmed that id be the last in a very long line to find out. It's something that really needs to be addressed but now isnt really the best time, but when is for a conversation like that.