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Title: Dilemma
Post by: kerry red on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:44:26
Whilst researching for the Stunners WC, I happened upon a 'swinging' site.

Just out of interest, you understand, I put in Swindon and had look at what popped up ( so to speak!).

Fuck me, there was someone on there I know (minus his wife, of course).

Now, we aren't great friends or anything, more acquaintances really - but do I keep schtum or not?


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:45:52
None of your business, and I doubt either of them would thank you for getting involved. I'd keep schtum.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: kerry red on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:46:27
Probably sound advice


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: Flashheart on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:47:10
Get involved and you will almost certainly end up the villain no matter what happens. Just keep it to yourself.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: kerry red on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:48:07
When you say 'get involved' . . . .


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: tans on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:50:33
Sign up to said site (not as yourself obviously) and string him along a bit. Arrange to meet and then spring the surprise on him when he gets there :D


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: Samdy Gray on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:50:39
What people get up to behind the privacy of closed doors is none of your business.

Keep your beak out.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: Honkytonk on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:52:31
If you did mention something you'd have to go through the 'Why were you looking at a swingers site in the first place?' conversation.

If it were me I'd leave their private lives to them. File it away as blackmail material for later if they piss you off.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: 4D on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 13:58:08
A tefer?  :sherlock:

In all seriousness,  don't get involved.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: THE FLASH on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 14:22:41
Keep it zipped.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: joteddyred on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 15:14:47
A couple of my friends who are recently single have signed up to a few online dating sites.

It's quite shocking the number of males we know that are married or in long term relationships that have popped up on their searches.

It's not worth the hassle of saying anything, as others have said you'll most likely be pinpointed as a troublemaker.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 15:23:03
There's no way to know if she's in on it anyway.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: horlock07 on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 15:58:32
I would expose them to the Daily Mail - such things are flithy and should be stamped on!

Seriously though steer well clear!


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: Tails on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 16:29:08
Fuck that. Tell him you know and demand things from him as a payment for your silence. Start off slow... lifts, the odd beer, but then progressively heavier until he gets to the point where he just admits he's a creepy wierdo and exists only as a broken shell of a man!


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: Tails on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 16:29:43
Sorry, had to go against the grain. Keep quiet and give a sly smile when you see him. Not worth the hassle at all.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: Sippo on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 16:31:49
Get involved.


Title: Re: Dilemma
Post by: Barry Scott on Thursday, May 29, 2014, 16:50:38
Update your Facebook Status with a link to his swingers profile and write a message on his wall about it every few hours. Take some screenshots and add them in as well. Send them to friends and maybe even say he came on to you. Perhaps start a fan page where everyone can get together and discuss it and blow it out of proportion.

That's what I'd do.