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Title: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:09:27 background:
guy i've known for years but he's come to dislike me due to my mrs being his mates ex has been going out with girl for years. this girl has put up with shit like him going mental at her for- her phone not receiving texts, dancing, getting drunk, going out without him etc. new girl joins our team, is appointed my deputy...turns out she used to have an unspoken thing with said guy and she confides in me that she stayed in guys bed with him and along with two others. guy's girl knew of new girls liking of guy and despises her because of it. my mrs is good friends with guys girl and of course i confided in her...was i wrong to do this? should i feel bad that my mrs has told her friend? i'd hate to read this drunk... Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: ibelieveinmrreeves on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:12:02 Its difficult enough to read sober...
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: chalkies_shorts on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:12:40 I'm reading it drunk and is the answer that you should ask the girl for a threesome with your mrs?
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: yeo on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:13:24 Could you simplify that,I dont get it..
whats the actual dilema anyway? Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: suttonred on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:14:35 I'm drunk too and agree with mr shorts(unless there were 4 women there?)
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:16:03 guy is cock to mrs, then shares a bed with another girl he knows his mrs hates
i got carried away :( Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: yeo on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:18:29 I get the dillema bit now.
yes you should feel bad. although.. did the girl at work know of your connection to the other person? cos if she did she probably knew it was going to get back anyway,if thats the case then you shouldnt feel bad. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Ƭ̵̬̊: The Artist Formerly Known as CWIG on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:19:17 I’m sober and I work with you and I’m still baffled. (Assuming your talking about work) I would appreciate you liaising with me to bring this matter to a resolution at your earliest convenience Mr. Bennett.
Regards. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: chalkies_shorts on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:19:26 As long as he didn't then no real damage done - put it down to experience. If he gave her a portion then the game changes.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: yeo on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:19:36 is sharing a bed having sex or just sharing a bed by the way?
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:20:34 sharing a bed, and the girl knew the guy was with his mrs still
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: chalkies_shorts on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:22:58 No real damage done - move on - let it go - keep out.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: yeo on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:23:52 Fuck me,its just like Hollyoaks.
Sleeping in the same bed as someone your Mrs doesnt like surely isnt the worst crime ever. were they top and tail? :D its very important.. were socks left on? Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:24:43 see i'd agree with you, but he's such a cock to her. this week he's not spoken to his mrs (who's in bournemouth at uni) for two days as her phone wouldn't send text messages whilst she was at the pub...
the keeping out bit seems a bit harder from here Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: yeo on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:26:13 She should just dump him,he sounds like a nob.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:27:00 i think she's in the process of doing that currently
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: chalkies_shorts on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:27:28 So the issue isn't about him sleeping in a bed with another bird - the issue is he's a cock and you're the one to put the world to right. Very dangerous territory and one you almost certainlt won't win on.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: yeo on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:28:47 Yes but hes not Bennets friend anyway, so why should he care what matey thinks?
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:30:06 to be honest i told my mrs who's mates with his mrs...i'm not the one pushing her to do anything.
i'm not trying to get the world squared up at all, but he's a nob so i do hope things sway from his favour Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: chalkies_shorts on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:33:00 Oh I'm drunk and off to bed now, I'm getting confused. When I log on tomorrow I expect an answer on here. Being 47 and a fat bastard if she needs consoling send her my way will you.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: flammableBen on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:35:29 it's all a bit holyoaks.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:35:48 it is, but then sometimes we need this sort of fun in our lives...
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: suttonred on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 00:42:23 Oh I'm drunk and off to bed now, I'm getting confused. When I log on tomorrow I expect an answer on here. Being 47 and a fat bastard if she needs consoling send her my way will you. Ditto but a bit younger and a bit less stouter (2 yrs and 2 lbs)Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: PHIL!!!! on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 01:47:05 Yeah, yeah, yeah, in other news, Bennett, are you out in town tomorrow night?
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: PHIL!!!! on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 01:47:55 By that i mean Saturday............
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: axs on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 04:55:35 This was all very confusing.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Samdy Gray on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 09:06:19 Confused.com
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: swindon_chick on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 09:15:30 Random question: Bennett were you in Boots yesterday lunch time?
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 09:17:33 i'm not phil! as much as i'd love to has a massively drunken conversation with you again and not remember the words of said conversation.
i was swindon_chick, i was buying a lovely vegan sandwich on their equally lovely meal deal... Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Ƭ̵̬̊: The Artist Formerly Known as CWIG on Sunday, February 15, 2009, 13:26:56 poof
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Arriba on Sunday, February 15, 2009, 13:42:11 just have a gang bang
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Sunday, February 15, 2009, 13:53:55 Just re-read this....came in after a decent session Friday night, read the original, and it made no sense whatsoever :)
So was good to see the disclaimer....still doesn't make any sense though Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Simon Pieman on Sunday, February 15, 2009, 14:04:22 I had to read it several times and I was sober. I still don't really get what the dilemma was, it seemed bennett just wanted to get this bloke in the shit :)
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Sunday, February 15, 2009, 14:07:45 I had to read it several times and I was sober. I still don't really get what the dilemma was, it seemed bennett just wanted to get this bloke in the shit :) I thought it was something to do with getting 3 birds in your bed...which is what I was trying to do on Friday night...failed miserably, but still a laugh. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Monday, February 16, 2009, 10:54:44 Is this why you had to buy so much beer in town on Saturday? ;)
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Monday, February 16, 2009, 10:59:14 Is this why you had to buy so much beer in town on Saturday? ;) Did you see me on Saturday JFW....you should have said hello, I'd have introduced you to my younger son. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:02:31 umm no I saw Bennett! is your son hot then Reg???
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:05:37 umm no I saw Bennett! is your son hot then Reg??? Chip off the old block JFW....in fact he looks nothing like me, takes after his mother. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: LucienSanchez on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:07:23 Is she hot?
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:14:39 Is she hot? Nah...more the pretty and innocent. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:22:32 How olds your oldest son then Reg?
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:32:19 How olds your oldest son then Reg? 22... Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:33:55 ooowwww great age! ;)
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:41:32 ooowwww great age! ;) He seems to like them young....he considers my Czech friend, who is 25 to be well past her sell by date. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:44:19 Oh well - ruled me out then!
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Monday, February 16, 2009, 11:47:54 Oh well - ruled me out then! Don't think he'd be your type anyway JFW, last time I saw him at Christmas, he looked more of a hippy than DV or ISOB. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Bennett on Monday, February 16, 2009, 18:11:33 Is this why you had to buy so much beer in town on Saturday? ;) nope, that was due to the rugby :) Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 09:47:11 Don't think he'd be your type anyway JFW, last time I saw him at Christmas, he looked more of a hippy than DV or ISOB. Oh I like the nice clean cut footballer looking boys! Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Simon Pieman on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 17:23:55 Oh I like the nice clean cut footballer looking boys! Clean cut boys who look like they have an IQ of less than 100 then. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: jayohaitchenn on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 18:10:00 Clean cut boys who look like they have an IQ of less than 100 then. Jealously is an ugly thing, Simon. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Simon Pieman on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 18:24:36 Jealously is an ugly thing, Simon. And I'm very ugly Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: flammableBen on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 18:41:28 I'm ugly and I have an IQ under 100.
Surely half the population (ish) have an IQ under 100? Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Simon Pieman on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 18:46:57 I'm ugly and I have an IQ under 100. Surely half the population (ish) have an IQ under 100? An IQ between 90 and 110 I think, perhaps I should have said 90. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: jayohaitchenn on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 18:48:30 I would say more than that Ben. Given that the average on most tests is generally 100 and 75 is considered to be mentally handicapped. It's not uncommon to hear of a 150 IQ for example.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Simon Pieman on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 18:56:39 I reckon more than 50% of the thisis members are mentally handicapped.
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: ronnie21 on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 19:00:54 I reckon more than 50% of the thisis members are mentally handicapped. Fair shout, but think you have miscalculated - 50% seems a bit low to me!!Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Simon Pieman on Tuesday, February 17, 2009, 19:02:51 Fair shout, but think you have miscalculated - 50% seems a bit low to me!! Oh dear. Think before you type :) Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Wednesday, February 18, 2009, 10:33:37 Clean cut boys who look like they have an IQ of less than 100 then. Dont want anyone to out brainy me do I? ;) Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Wednesday, February 18, 2009, 10:51:21 Dont want anyone to out brainy me do I? ;) It's a well established fact, that not many women like very clever men...nerdy, swotty, high IQ types. Generally preferring the bad boys, who although dodgy are perceived as more exciting. Think JFW, would go for Joey Barton big time. :) Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Wednesday, February 18, 2009, 10:59:18 euuuuwwww Reg noooooooooo!!
More like the Lee Peacock - sweet but a bit dappy type Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Reg Smeeton on Wednesday, February 18, 2009, 11:01:01 euuuuwwww Reg noooooooooo!! More like the Lee Peacock - sweet but a bit dappy type Yeah right JFW, I can just see you withstanding the advances of Joey Barton. Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Jamiesfuturewife on Wednesday, February 18, 2009, 11:05:03 Dont be horrid Reg - Hes an out and out thug
Title: Re: moral dilemma Post by: Sussex on Wednesday, February 18, 2009, 11:31:45 Yeah but you probably get six months a year when he's 'away from home'.
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