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Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:03:21
So who knows much about ebay?

Heres the situation:

Bought a pair of trainers on Ebay, Buy it now and then found a website where they assess the item for fakes etc. and turns out they are fakes (I found this website after purchasing).  The seller is stating 100% authentic and happy for people to contact him etc. however hasn't replied since Friday morning.

I don't know if he has posted goods yet however I don't want them now I know they're not genuine.  I have 2 options

After speaking to the bank today I can get my money back if I cancel the transaction today before 3pm however I risk a bad feedback from ebay and also, I don't know if the seller has posted the item or not as he hasn't bothered contacting me.

Option 2 is that I don't cancel the transaction and hope the product arrives although will prob have to send back anyway as like I said, I only want genuines and I don't want to get into trouble with ebay for receiving an item and not paying for it, but theres nothing I can do if the seller isn't replying to my queries/messages.

I'm really stuck :?  

I use ebay quite a lot and don't want to risk not being able to use it again.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: axs on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:09:58
cancel the transaction and risk the feedback but try sending him/her another message saying you weren't interested in fakes but no hard feelings and can we both leave positive feedback. if the seller leaves it first then give him/her negative!


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: magicroundabout on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:10:10
but if the items are fake (which 99% of items are on ebay) then ebay wont ban you and 1 negative feedback isn't all that bad. especially as you can state that they were fake and didn't wan't them.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: magicroundabout on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:11:18
Quote from: "axs"
cancel the transaction and risk the feedback but try sending him/her another message saying you weren't interested in fakes but no hard feelings and can we both leave positive feedback. if the seller leaves it first then give him/her negative!


harsh but fair.

axs, what is your avater of?


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:11:59
But what if the seller has posted them and not told me as it makes me look bad for receiving items I havent paid for.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: axs on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:14:30
Quote from: "STFCLady"
But what if the seller has posted them and not told me as it makes me look bad for receiving items I havent paid for.


then he is stupid as payment hasn't cleared. basic rule of selling on ebay (or anywhere) - don't give the customer the merchandise until you have the money.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: magicroundabout on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:15:11
don't sign for them. that way you haven't received them.

no doubt he would have sent them recorded delivery so will have insurance if they go missing


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: axs on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:15:45
Quote from: "magicroundabout"
Quote from: "axs"
cancel the transaction and risk the feedback but try sending him/her another message saying you weren't interested in fakes but no hard feelings and can we both leave positive feedback. if the seller leaves it first then give him/her negative!


harsh but fair.

axs, what is your avater of?


long exposure night view of magic roundabout.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: magicroundabout on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:18:01
it looked similar to something i produce at work that was all.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: STFCBird on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:18:03
Cancel the transaction and if you get bad feedback you can explain that the seller ripped you off. Also we'll all know you are wearing fakes  :mrgreen:  :wink:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:23:09
Cancelled with the Bank, emailed ebay to state why and send seller a message saying the following:

Please be advised that I have cancelled this transaction due to no communication and having the goods checked, and confirmed as fakes.
I request you not to leave negative feedback as the item is not 100% authentic as you described and also you cannot be contacted with ease. I will agree not to leave any feedback at all however please bear in mind there are plenty of organisations monitoring ebay items for illegitimate goods and they are really cracking down reporting sellers to trading standards.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: axs on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:26:42
fair play, should do the trick.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Colin Todd on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:26:54
Just wear them. no-one will know they are fakes.

Unless they are made by Nake or Reebak or something :D


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:31:06
Nah I honestly thought they were genuine.

Apparently fakes fall apart real easily and stink of glue!


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: fatbury on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:32:05
Basically the way to see it Lady is that you have nothing to be ashamed of .. if he lied that they were genuine its his fault .. too many cowboys on ebay !


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:42:28
Im not ashamed!  Just don't want to burn by ebaying bridges but anyway!  Im off now to locate some real ones, at full price  :(


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: fatbury on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:43:33
awwww .. well I hope you get them

anyway you neednt worry .. with your good looks people rarely look at your feet  :wink:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: magicroundabout on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 10:47:46
Quote from: "fatbury"
awwww .. well I hope you get them

anyway you neednt worry .. with your good looks people rarely look at your feet  :wink:



 :run:  :chunder:  :chunder: :groan1:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 11:24:12
yes but fatbury, thats not much of a compliment coming from you!!

What was it you said about that Wovers fan in 442?


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: tans on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 11:51:21
:Ride On Fatbury's Lovestick:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Matchworn Shirts on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 11:52:18
Quote from: "fatbury"
awwww .. well I hope you get them

anyway you neednt worry .. with your good looks people rarely look at your feet  :wink:


I think I am going to :chunder:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 11:53:27
:|  :|  :|  :|  :|
 :-))(  :-))(  :-))(  :-))(  :-))(
 :surrender: :surrender: :surrender: :surrender: :surrender:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: land_of_bo on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 11:53:31
You should always judge a person by their footwear.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: McLovin on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 11:57:04
footwear and watches.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: magicroundabout on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 11:58:28
and sunglasses


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: neville w on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 12:00:04
You're all accessories to the fact !


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 12:00:24
I think footwear is important, even if I did mistake fakes for genuine but the picture was very misleading  :oops:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Sussex on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 12:04:34
Quote from: "fatbury"
awwww .. well I hope you get them

anyway you neednt worry .. with your good looks people rarely look at your feet  :wink:


Words fail me.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Foggy on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 12:15:34
Quote from: "Sussex"
Quote from: "fatbury"
awwww .. well I hope you get them

anyway you neednt worry .. with your good looks people rarely look at your feet  :wink:


Words fail me.


They dont me...WEIRDO !


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 14:15:41
to be fair to fatters, he does make a good point! :oops:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: pumbaa on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 14:34:59
I notice he hasn't taken my advice about the personal ad... :(


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 14:47:54
Quote from: "pumbaa"
I notice he hasn't taken my advice about the personal ad... :(


maybe he's feeling intimidated by it all. Here you go Fatbury, these translations should help:

40-ish = 49
Adventurous = Slept with everyone
Athletic = No tits
Average looking = Ugly
Beautiful = Pathological liar
Contagious Smile = Does a lot of pills
Emotionally secure = On medication
Feminist = Fat
Free spirit = Junkie
Friendship first = Former very *friendly* person
Fun = Annoying
New Age = Body hair in the wrong places
Open-minded = Desperate
Outgoing = Loud and Embarrassing
Passionate = Sloppy drunk
Professional = Bitch
Voluptuous = Very Fat
Large frame = Hugely Fat
Wants Soul mate = Stalker


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: magicroundabout on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 14:54:42
Quote from: "jayohaitchenn"
Quote from: "pumbaa"
I notice he hasn't taken my advice about the personal ad... :(


maybe he's feeling intimidated by it all. Here you go Fatbury, these translations should help:

40-ish = 49
Adventurous = Slept with everyone
Athletic = No tits
Average looking = Ugly
Beautiful = Pathological liar
Contagious Smile = Does a lot of pills
Emotionally secure = On medication
Feminist = Fat
Free spirit = Junkie
Friendship first = Former very *friendly* person
Fun = Annoying
New Age = Body hair in the wrong places
Open-minded = Desperate
Outgoing = Loud and Embarrassing
Passionate = Sloppy drunk
Professional = Bitch
Voluptuous = Very Fat
Large frame = Hugely Fat
Wants Soul mate = Stalker


= Fatbury


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: STFCBird on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 14:56:34
Poor fatbury. Can I join your stalking club please?


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: fatbury on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 15:03:20
:scribe:

Dear Deirdre

I went on a footy forum to find some new friends to go to footy with as all my usual friends hate me cos im boring and annoying.

Unfortunately now everyone has met me on the forum I am hated more than ever (I blame the sauces personally!) and everyone takes the piss

What can I do?

Yours stalkingly

Fats


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: fatbury on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 15:05:17
:scribe:

PS if you are ACTUALLY female Deirdre .. single and you have a photo can I have it and your address and mobile phone number please??

Maybe we can do a date .. and guess what .. I know a great line in carpets for your front room

 :wink:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Sussex on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 15:08:06
Quote from: "fatbury"
:scribe:

Dear Deirdre

I went on a footy forum to find some new friends to go to footy with as all my usual friends hate me cos im boring and annoying.

Unfortunately now everyone has met me on the forum I am hated more than ever (I blame the sauces personally!) and everyone takes the piss

What can I do?

Yours stalkingly

Fats


I think you're lovely in real life fatters, but I don't like H from Steps. It was doomed from the start  :(


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: STFCBird on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 15:12:22
you apparently go for stalkers


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 15:29:41
Quote from: "fatbury"
:scribe:

PS if you are ACTUALLY female Deirdre .. single and you have a photo can I have it and your address and mobile phone number please??

Maybe we can do a date .. and guess what .. I know a great line in carpets for your front room

 :wink:


Brilliant! :Ride On Fatbury's Lovestick:

Fatbury in funny post shocker!


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: pumbaa on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 16:16:46
:Ride On Fatbury's Lovestick:

Fatters, glad to see you're taking this in the spirit it was intended.

In all seriousness though, try the personal ad approach. It worked for me as I met my missus through one. I also met one or two deluded psychopaths as well, but thats part of the fun (but to be fair, the fact she was from Trowbridge should have given me enough warning signs... :soapy tit wank: ). Its a great way to meet people and expand your social boundaries.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Fred Elliot on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 16:35:18
Hunt him down and shoot the fucker


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: pumbaa on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 16:36:50
Fred, he ain't a terrorist (that we know of...)  :-))(


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Fred Elliot on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 20:12:23
still shoot him (in a bad mood)


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Bushey Boy on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 20:22:47
Fatbury, I am going to kiss you if I ever meet you, great post

(and im not a women so no tongues)


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Mexicano Rojo on Wednesday, August 1, 2007, 23:33:12
i have to disagree with fatbury, shes a slaaag.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Thursday, August 2, 2007, 08:08:44
Quote from: "mexico red"
i have to disagree with fatbury, shes a slaaag.


 :box:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Thursday, August 2, 2007, 09:36:42
I would pay to see a fight between Lady and Mex.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Mexicano Rojo on Thursday, August 2, 2007, 11:12:39
i would win, i have no qualms about kicking her cunt in.


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Thursday, August 2, 2007, 11:24:06
Quote from: "mexico red"
i would win, i have no qualms about kicking her cunt in.


You are one sick bastard, but then again you already know that  :D


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: tans on Thursday, August 2, 2007, 11:34:21
Quote from: "mexico red"
i would win, i have no qualms about kicking her cunt in.


 :Ride On Fatbury's Lovestick:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: ronnie21 on Thursday, August 2, 2007, 12:21:36
Quote from: "STFCLady"
Quote from: "mexico red"
i would win, i have no qualms about kicking her cunt in.


You are one sick bastard, but then again you already know that  :D
:Ride On Fatbury's Lovestick:


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Thursday, August 2, 2007, 12:27:29
Quote from: "mexico red"
i would win, i have no qualms about kicking her cunt in.


and thats why i would pay!  :D


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Luci on Wednesday, August 8, 2007, 11:12:26
Right need help again.

Cancelled with the bank however just gone onto paypal to transfer something and my account is showing negative the amount I cancelled with the bank?  Why is that?  Does anyone know how I can resolve it?


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: jayohaitchenn on Wednesday, August 8, 2007, 11:13:08
phone paypal?


Title: Ebay Dilemma
Post by: Gazza's Fat Mate on Wednesday, August 8, 2007, 11:33:02
Just sign up undr a new name that what I keep doing I havn't paid for a sigle thing on ebay but who's gonna cathc me the stuf goes to a po box and I just cancel the payment with my bank works every time all i have to do is get a new hotmail address etc free stufff whoooooooooooooo