i was embarrassed

[mexico red]

gays attract sharks too, and they can be picked up on radar.

[flammableBen]

There has been a sharp rise in shark sightings in the area around the Pink Rooms since it opened.

[Simon Pieman]

Must be all the fresh blood they been smelling

[flammableBen]

It's done a lot of good for Swindon's fishing industry. Hence the Swindon groups extention to LGBF, Lesbians Gays Bisexuals and Fishermen.

[flash]

Tolerance is one thing a town full of benders is quite another.

That is quite honestly bollocks flash

Would you say that sitting down and knocking one out over some granny porn (as obviously you do) is a perversion ?

You need a reality check darling xx

First a definition:

Sexual perversion in psychology, sexual behavior deemed pathological by its deviation from "normal" sexual desire. The definition of sexual perversion has shifted considerably over time: indeed, it has never been an uncontested category of meaning. For example, homosexual desire has long been stigmatized as sexual perversion among many segments of Western society (and remains so among some), but within the field of psychology, it is no longer considered pathological. Use of the term perversion itself has come under wide criticism in recent years. Today, psychologists generally refer to nontraditional sexual behavior as sexual deviation or, in cases where the specific object of arousal is unusual, as paraphilia. There are a number of recognized disorders of this type. In fetishism, the object of sexual desire is either an inanimate object or a nongenital part of the human anatomy. Voyeurism involves the covert viewing of other individuals who are naked, undressing, or engaged in sexual activity, as the primary means of sexual arousal. Sexual arousal as a result of physical contact with prepubescent children is described as pedophilia. Other forms of sexual deviation include exhibitionism, incest, transvestism, necrophilia, sadism, and masochism. Many of these behaviors, when they involve the participation of nonconsenting adults (or children, consenting or not), are punishable by law. Although rape is not classified as a paraphilia, it is a serious sexual deviance, and perhaps the most highly reviled form of sexual gratification. Most forms of sexual deviance are accompanied by any number of other psychological disorders.

So by this definition, yes watching granny porn is a sexual perversion though perhaps, as suggested in the definition, sexual deviation is a more acceptable term.

I did say that indulging in a sexual deviancy such as sodomy was no big deal although your reaction suggests to me that you may have some sort of guilty secret, am I right?

[flash]

Flash needs a cock up his arse

No need to guess where you're coming from.
 :shock:  :?  :roll:

[flash]

I'm never sure what homophobia means

It's taken me hours of researching, but here's a few clues...

http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&q=homophobia+&btnG=Google+Search&meta=

Bless.

Especially this bit:

Theorists including Calvin Thomas and Judith Butler have suggested that homophobia can be rooted in an individual's fear of being identified as gay.[citation needed] At least one study indicates that homophobia in men is correlated with insecurity about masculinity.[30]

They have argued that a person who expresses homophobic thoughts and feelings does so not only to communicate their beliefs about the class of gay people, but also to distance themself from this class and its social status. Thus, by distancing themself from gay people, they are reaffirming their role as a heterosexual in a heteronormative culture, thereby attempting to prevent themself from being labelled and treated as a gay person.

This interpretation alludes to the idea that a person may posit violent opposition to "the Other" as a means of establishing their own identity as part of the majority and thus gaining social validation. This concept is also recurrent in interpretations of racism and xenophobia.

Nancy J. Chodorow states that homophobia can be viewed as a method of protection of male masculinity.[31]

Various psychoanalytic theories explain homophobia as a threat to an individual's own same-sex impulses, whether those impulses are imminent or merely hypothetical. This threat causes repression, denial or reaction formation.

That's what I mean hours of research and all that can be found are subjective theories as to what the term means.

The word itself, made up using the terms homo=same and phobia=fear, makes no sense. It seems it serves as a label to be used perjoritively to put down someone or something that is disagreed with without having to present a cogent arguement.

[herthab]

Flash. You're nor funny anymore.

Stick to talking about tolerance being one thing, but a town full of benders being  quite another.

Much funnier

[flash]

Please, if there is any patronising to be done I would prefer to be the one doing it.

[axs]

of course you would love, you're a giver not a taker.

[Bushey Boy]

Give us a kiss flash

[pauld]

The word itself, made up using the terms homo=same and phobia=fear, makes no sense.

Erm, it's a contraction of homosexuality and phobia. It's not difficult.

It seems it serves as a label to be used perjoritively to put down someone or something that is disagreed with without having to present a cogent arguement.

What like using the pejorative term "benders" to disguise your fear of your own sexuality for example? Oh and if you're going to try using big words love at least spell them right

[Batch]

gays attract sharks too, and they can be picked up on radar.

Gaydar - thought you'd know the lingo Mex.

[Sussex]

So is flash bashing the new fatbury bashing?  

[Don Rogers Shop]

Do gays die if after they prick you? I guess they would if they had the aids, but then you would die too and with bees that normally only happens if you have an allergic reaction.

Perhaps flash isn't a homophobe, he just has an allergy to gays. Do you think flash breaks out in a rash if he goes within a 50 metre radius of the pink rooms? Perhaps flash doesn't like Corrie characters either.

Would if it pricked me the dirty bastard