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theoretically: if contraception failed and she confirmed she was pregnant, how would you feel/ react?
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« Reply #16 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 22:05:44 » |
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Stitched up.
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« Reply #17 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 22:23:47 » |
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i'll give her kids, but im not bringing the cunts up.
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« Reply #18 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 22:25:11 » |
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i'll give her kids, but im not bringing the cunts up.
I'll let her know. |
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« Reply #19 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 22:25:34 » |
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Fuck mate !
If there were kids of your own (between you) already involved, then I would say fight tooth and nail to reach a compromise in order to stay together.
The old biological clock is a weird thing and things and feelings do change. However, I feel your pain.
All I can say is don't be manouvered into a corner that you really don't want to be in for what could be short term gains, for it will eat and eat away at you mate.
You know where I am if you need a chat
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« Reply #20 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 22:31:19 » |
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You should try and get her to stay for the right reasons.... paying the bills is not a good reason!
My best friend has an older man and has done for years now, it seems that not every woman needs to have children. Its something she and i have talked about alot and she is more than willing to give that up to be with him. Your other half might just be having a moment...?
I hope it works out for you x
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« Reply #21 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 22:34:03 » |
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If you definitely don' want kids, and she definitely does wnat kids there is only one way it is headed really.
It's shit but no point in being in denial of it.
Sorry.
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« Reply #22 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 22:45:08 » |
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Your other half might just be having a moment...?
This - if its something thats just passing, and she eventually realises that its not what she wants then you can get past it. However if she really has her heart set on having kids, then it may alter the dynamic of your relationship too much to stay together. Probably just regurgitating what others have said but I wanted to put my own special spin on it. |
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« Reply #23 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 23:13:11 » |
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If you definitely don' want kids, and she definitely does wnat kids there is only one way it is headed really.
It's shit but no point in being in denial of it.
Sorry.
This is the crunch right here. If she's adam ant then it's time to do the right thing and move on. |
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« Reply #24 on: Tuesday, February 3, 2009, 23:55:35 » |
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Cant you just give her dan? Seriously though mate i am sure you will do what is right.
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« Reply #25 on: Wednesday, February 4, 2009, 01:12:08 » |
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If you're both serious and set on your respective kids/no kids positions, then you know where it's headed already, but worth taking the time to see if there's room for compromise on either side.
On a more serious note - 44-25, any tips to share?
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« Reply #26 on: Wednesday, February 4, 2009, 05:10:14 » |
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If you're both serious and set on your respective kids/no kids positions, then you know where it's headed already, but worth taking the time to see if there's room for compromise on either side.
On a more serious note - 44-25, any tips to share?
Pick an ugly one. |
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« Reply #27 on: Wednesday, February 4, 2009, 07:03:45 » |
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I agree with Miss Angry. If paying the bills is the biggest worry, I think you've answered your own question.
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« Reply #28 on: Wednesday, February 4, 2009, 07:53:45 » |
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I agree with Miss Angry. If paying the bills is the biggest worry, I think you've answered your own question.
I was being a bit flippant there, obviously there's more to it otherwise we wouldn't have been together for 4 years. Had another chat this morning and she's moved out 'For A Few Days.' |
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« Reply #29 on: Wednesday, February 4, 2009, 08:33:13 » |
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Why would she? I even said I'd marry her! Just no kids.
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