Well the gay thing backfired a bit, I wasn't counting on getting dick-picks. I'm going to have to brace myself when opening emails on that account from now on.
Hang on, so you used your own email address? So this isn't so much spamming the guy who ripped you off, as just you signing yourself up for a gay contact list? I think you need to start being honest with yourself about what's going on here, I'm sure you'll find the TEF a welcoming and supportive environment in which to start coming out